![]() ![]() And now it’s sad because we’ve had an argument about it and like I don’t know how to express my feelings to the point where she really understands whats happening right now and like I want to tell her that like maybe it’s because We need some time off so I can focus on my self and improve myself or like I just don’t know what it is.Īgain you're talking about hours after a text. I haven’t been enjoying my life for awhile now. Fyi I’m sort of in a long distance? (2 hour drive) but everything that’s been happening to me has just been draining everything single thing out of my body and I feel super bad because I know it’s my fault that I don’t reply and trust me she does make me super duper happy but it’s just like when I’m not happy I’m just never in a mood to talk to ANYONE! Whenever she says she loves me I hesitate to say it back and it’s not because I don’t but it’s because like I just don’t love my life. Like these past few weeks my body has been deteriorating inside/out and I’ve just been coming home depressed. ![]() Reason being is because of the things I’m going through right financially, physically, and emotionally. Yes it’s true but also for me because I’ve been having trouble giving my girl attention these past few days and reassuring her that I love her. And other people messaging supporting that it's okay, and is perfectly acceptable. I only made the post because there are too many people using the excuse of being busy not to reply and leaving people on read. I don't use snapchat to talk on, and will not use to people on fb or snapchat as contact for anyone I'm interested in. If you were interested in someone and didn't reply for a week because they were busy you'd be vexed right? Right.Įdit 2: I don't think I clarified well enough, I'm not the girl who used snapchat or has anxiety. If someone says "we talk once or twice a day" I don't care because thats acceptable. busy I'm not interested, it's an excuse to not invest yourself into someone. And I'm sorry but no matter how many people post but. But using the excuse of being "busy" when you have replied for over a day is rude and ignorant. If you don't reply for a couple of hours thats also okay. If you're genuinely interested in someone and only talk once a day- thats fine. Being in eachothers pokets is unhealthy! Texting every 5 minutes is unhealthy- besides no one has that many interesting things to say!īut choosing not to reply for a day to a week is ignorant. And can we STOP using the EXCUSE of being busy when you've opened a message?! We all get busy but if you can open a message, you can reply to it!Įditing: I'm not saying to constantly message eachother. Stop, and DON'T let anyone make you feel like crap. NO ONE IS THAT BUSY, IF THEY HAVE TIME TO OPEN A MESSAGE, THEY HAVE TIME TO REPLY!!!! If they're on snapchat and you see their score going up THEY ARE CHOOSING NOT TO TALK TO YOU!!!! I was in a relationship for 4 years, always initiated texts BF wouldn't reply for hours because he was "busy" (we were both students- I worked, he didn't) No matter how busy someone's life is NEVER accept the excuse of them being too busy. I can't find it again so I'm making a post for anyone who needs to hear it. There was a post a girl posted who had anxiety and mentioned that they guy left her on open, but his snap score goes up every hour. Mod harassment may result in a permanent ban.Ĭommunity Join us in Discord Online Resources If you have a question about moderation, please send a message to /r/dating_advice.ĭo not send mods pm's or chat requests.no articles or video links - Moderators do not have time to check external videos and links to make sure they follow sub and reddit rules and guidelines.If asking a question on a specific situation, please include the age and gender of both parties.You can state your opinion in a constructive manner. Any bashing, hateful attacks, or sexist remarks will be removed. Creating meaningful connections Community Guidelines Meeting people & starting conversations Established relationships longer than 6 months posts should go to r/relationship_advice Not discussions on the state of dating or generalized situations. Ask and offer advice for specific dating situations. ![]()
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